Rejected again dating
I will answer your question in regards to “getting him to chase you,” but I think it would be worthwhile to do a self-check as to what you’re really after here.When he was pursuing you, you felt like you had control and could choose whether or not you wanted him around. You came back together and over time, things changed.You might also find this quiz helpful – take the “Is He Losing Interest?” Quiz to figure out what’s going on in his head and if there’s actually an issue, the quiz will tell you what to do about it.” I can’t say specifically why he is leaving you hanging, but I can tell you that when I’ve done it it’s because something else more pressing came up. I just had a lot going on and I put off responding until I had a free moment… But again, there’s no way that you or I could know for sure.The best thing that we can do when we’re in this kind of situation is not take it personally.We had some turmoil in between and I thought I wouldn’t hear from him again.Then he initiated contact saying that he’s happy we are still friends and we kind of talked on and off for another week or so.
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He invited me to an event he was throwing and after that we started talking almost everyday.
Here’s the tricky part: Now he doesn’t call me as much and when we text he sometimes leaves me hanging mid-conversation.There needs to be hope and signs that we have a shot with the girl and that being with her would be incredible, even though it won’t be easy.